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Fourteen days ago and 3 days after I finalized through to Collarspace, among the numerous social platforms where Indian kinksters meet online, we went to my very first munch in South Delhi. When it comes to uninitiated, ‘munch’ is just a social gathering of BDSM professionals. Think: a home party with fine wine, chilled alcohol, heady cocktails, premium grub and hipster chocolates, but where conservations veer towards the decidedly steamy.
The community that is BDSM India happens to be thriving as a result of teams like my weekend munch party plus the Kinky Collective, an underground collective of BDSM enthusiasts in the nation. The collective has, since its inception last year, been producing and facilitating safe surroundings about affirmative consent and everything kink for them to meet, engage and also educate ‘Vanillas’ like myself. Continue reading “Confessions of the BDSM practitioner. If you’ve got a kink plus don’t know how to apprise your lover of the freaky passions”