I am perhaps not into topping—but loads of other trans women can be. We asked some (and some guys that are straight bottom) just just what it is like for them.
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There are two main main reasons why i really do not top: One, topping provides plenty of work, and I also choose to not ever work up a perspiration. Two, I’m a non-op trans girl, while the position that is only I’m in once I penetrate someone with my penis is regarded as existential vulnerability.
I’ve passed of all demands to top because We felt like my womanhood is at stake. If We had been to go out of the base, I would personally be getting off the intimate expectation to which right cis women can be held: to be penetrated. Once I do top, my partner’s desire feels more ambiguous: just what have always been we to him?