– The “fixer” is desperate to do just about anything to simply help the “fixee”. The fixee becomes determined by the fixer to solve their issues.
– The fixee does not place work into increasing by themselves, on their own. They are able to make changes that are temporary will revert straight straight right back. They feel insecure as a result of it. They feel more serious about by by themselves and away from defensiveness may blame the fixer with regards to their struggles that are continued.
– The fixer gets frustrated during the not enough progress simply because they worry. They might have the fixee is not as committed to their very own enhancement in order to find that to be selfish. The fixer seems unappreciated and hurt being alone setting up work to get blamed for attempting to assist. This all builds resentment which they remove in the fixee. Continue reading “Relationships that want more than one of the events to “fix” one other always concludes in dissatisfaction. It typically follows this development”